Why do you think we are thought things like i.e. real men/boys don't cry? Or that only women are capable of showing emotions? It's on such a subtle level but omg does it affect us in our daily lives!
Our emotions are key to many things.. Oh, why did I don't listen to my intuition?! I knew this would happen... So source replies... with a scenario that you did see coming but still did not act on!
Take relationships for example connected to balance between the sexes. In earlier days the men went hunting and the women took care of the toddlers and kids along with the elders.. that had huge wisdom to share.. (this especially in the Native Indian Communities).
I would say that the balance was very fair then even though flowing back and forth just as our bodies that works on adapting to our level of exercise or what and when we eat.. our bodies are fantastic cause it listens and responds to our behavior and input! Might be time to turn the table and listen to our body instead of the other way around or even better why don't work life together.. in tandem?!
Nature does it all the time as well.. just see the adjustment in i.e. Scandinavia atm .. where the winters are getting shorter and shorter.. due to re-balancing of mother nature...
Now back to us humans... in the beginning of the century the women still where mostly at home.. and in the Western world many got married.. not by love necessarily but cause they had to.. in order to be provided for .. as if they where children???
This has changed a bit over the decades fortunately and women work as hard as men but earn less???? Not very good balance concerning earning, right? Often the woman takes more responsibility for the home then men.. hmmm not very balanced but then it's also about communicating...
I totally adore females cause I think they are awesome beings.. but I don't understand why some still think we men can read thoughts.. ?? :P (just had to.. )
There is still a great unbalance for both sexes.. (yes the sexes have both female and male energies even though different sexes I think).
This is shifting though .. just look back from when I began my story with the Indians and until today... !
This is from my own experiences.. combined with others I know ...
Back to emotions.. and the energetic pull/push that happens all the time. (Let's keep this topic around relationships. Why? Cause there is no scenario such as a relationship that is so completely stuffed with emotions).
When looking back, relationships "ends" due to magnetic/energetic pushes earlier in life that where related to verbal/physical abuse with a lot of drama! Rather emotional, right?
Relationships more recent in life.. i.e. 5-10 years back... has also "ended" due to magnetic/energetic pushes but with LOVE still present and without the previous drama!!!
That is a huge difference!!
(A relationships hardly ever ends but transmutes to something different balancing itself with the individuals efforts.. of course.. cause we are co-creators of our lives).
If you put this together with how you treat your emotions your starting to see where this is going ... eh.. I hope.. ;)
Think of the emotions you had while "transmuting" earlier relationship that did not "end" in the most loving manners and compare it to the ones that "ended" more recently.. different right?
Yes, I might be out on a limb here but I take my chances.. it's not that I've have anything to loose.. :P
In today's society many relationships are "ending" cause people think they know something better will show up! Why are the divorce rates so high? Does not make sense.. earlier couples worked through their relationships but it's not that common today.. move on - NEXT and maybe another child as well.. cause that will probably save the day... !
Yes, I'm generally speaking but you get the gist of it.. and in most occasions our emotions are linked to ourselves! Allow you self to hone your emotions and not suppress them and I'm sure life will look differently... <3
Emotional balance is not about standing in status quo cause energy is moving all the time without stopping, it's rather working with your emotions so they can flow back and forth.. up and down.. allow this to happen you owe that to yourself...!